Emotional intelligence (EQ) isn’t just a buzzword—it’s one of the strongest predictors of lifelong success. A famous longitudinal study by psychologist Dr. Walter Mischel, known as the "marshmallow test," found that children who were able to delay gratification had better outcomes in education, health, and emotional well-being years later.
EQ is the ability to understand and manage your emotions, as well as recognize and respond to the emotions of others. Unlike IQ, it isn’t fixed—and it can be developed through modeling, conversation, and play.
The Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence reports that students with strong emotional skills perform better academically, build healthier relationships, and experience less stress. These benefits often persist into adulthood.
Children with higher EQ tend to:
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Form stronger peer relationships
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Navigate stress and frustration more constructively
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Show resilience in changing or challenging environments
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Communicate more clearly with caregivers and educators
In our blog, From Meltdowns to Mindfulness, we dive into why EQ matters more than IQ in the long run—and how parents can model, teach, and support this at home.
How The Gingerbread Pan Supports EQ:
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Our Printable Emotion Flashcards help children label and understand emotions visually.
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Parenting Affirmation Cards offer gentle reminders for caregivers to pause, reflect, and respond with empathy.
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Our blog on Emotions for Ages 0–4 provides a breakdown of how to introduce these concepts early.
Building EQ into Your Daily Routine:
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Use plushies like members of the Cuddle Croo to act out social scenarios.
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Encourage your child to express how their toy “feels” to help them project and explore emotions.
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Model calmness during difficult moments, using affirmations like “It’s okay to feel upset. Let’s take a breath together.”
Try This At Home: During playtime or bedtime, ask your child, "How did your cuddle friend feel today?" You’ll be surprised how often children project their feelings onto their toys—and it’s a safe, natural way to open up important conversations.
Make it fun and interactive. Invite your child to draw different faces on paper and match them to how they think their plush feels. You’re building vocabulary and awareness, without them even realizing they’re learning.
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